Friday, May 30, 2014

Writing a Blog directly from my E-Mail

I don't know about the rest of you, but I find this to be real cool and very convenient!  If I want to write a blog post, I just send it to the email address and viola, it arrives in Blogger, and within 15min or so, arrives on Facebook!

Maybe you don't care (probably)... but this is geeky and cool and I think it means that I can pick up writing a blog again.  I think it's still a journal or diary (gay) but in today's world, it's a blog.

Also, to test some functionality of this whole thing, I'm going to put in a random picture and see how it appears in FB and Blogger.

So, you'll see some crap coming up that has no meaning or whatever, but too bad, I'm testing and goofing and dorkin out, so too bad!


Monday, April 30, 2012

Some weekends are more awesome than others!

I must say, I've had two straight awesome weekends!  They can't all be spectacular, this I know, but two in a row that were just super fun and memorable is one that just has to be blogged about!

Two weekends ago, we celebrated my beautiful wife's birthday and she and I also got a free trip to Berlin!  The weekend started on Friday the 20th, where we celebrated Kathi's 29th birthday at the Frühlingsfest.  For those who don't know, the Frühlingsfest (which is translated as spring festival) is like a miniature Oktoberfest, but it's really just celebrated by the people of Bayern.  Many of the different towns, villages, and neighborhoods will all have their own festival, with beer halls, rides, foods, and carnival games and events.  But the big one is at the Theresienwiese, which is the same location where the Oktoberfest is held each year.  So, Kathi and I, and several of our good friends, had two tables reserved and partied all Friday night long!  To say that most people there were over the top drunk would have been an understatement!  I, in particular, was in a whole new realm of drunk :-) But, all the singing, dancing, dirndls and lederhosen, and of course, many a maß beer, and we all had a super great time!


The next day, Kathi and I were on a plane to Berlin!  We were finalists in a contest to see who would be the "face of Israel"... an ad campaign for vacationing and traveling to Israel and they were looking for the right couple to be the ad campaign "face".  We were one of 10-15 couples that were finalists, out of more than 350, which was pretty awesome!  So, they paid for our flight to Berlin and our hotel room!  We spent Saturday just going around the city being tourists.  She and I went to quite a number of vegan restaurants and shops, all of which were quite tasty and cool, and had drinks with a buddy of ours that evening.  That Sunday, we spent the day with the Axel Springer company (the sponsors), going through the questions and taking pictures.  One super cool thing about this place was that the top floor of this building was the personal suite of the late Axel Springer, and it's gorgeous, completely made from hand carved wood, AND, every US president except for Obama has been to this suite for business in the past.  Very cool!


This last weekend was basically fun in the sun... and yes, lots of beer too!  Friday's are always a bit nice because we are allowed to leave work an hour early, and this particular Friday, I left an hour earlier than that!  So, I took Blue on a walk down the Isar (the river that runs through Munich) and we had a nice time doing that.  Back home for a workout, then I was off to hang out with a couple of buddies that I don't normally hang with, Riste and Jan, and that was pretty cool!  We met on the Isar (again for me), had a couple beers, then went off to the Höfbräuhaus for one more maß beer!

Saturday was Flag Football and BBQ!  I did a decent job at QB... for every 5 crap passes I threw, I had one great one for a long TD :-) We played a great game out in the sun, everyone had a lot of fun and then we just chilled and BBQ'd and drank beers!  That evening I had dinner at my buddy Keith's house, along with a nice nap on his futon.  All in all, a good Saturday.

Sunday was pretty awesome too.  Keith took me and Kathi, plus a bunch of us guys, on a hike up to Seekar mountain, where we proceeded to hike up and down for 4+ hours and over 1000 meters!  This is not much for some peoples standards, but for some rookies, it was pretty great.  The views from the mountain were beautiful and I'm looking forward to heading out for another good hike soon!  Another cool thing was that afterwards we stopped at a restaurant call Hirschbachstüberl, a typical Bavarian restaurant, but the hidden surprise was that this was an all vegetarian\vegan restaurant... Kathi was ridiculously happy!  The food was good, and so were the beers! 



So, now it's Monday and I'm at work.  I'm sore all over and sun burnt on top of that!  But I tell you, I wouldn't change a thing, except for maybe using more sunblock!  Two awesome weekends, back to back.  I can't wait to see what's in store next!

Thursday, March 22, 2012

I think I've finally got a handle on it

Over the past few weeks, I've finally gotten the scale to turn around and get heading south again.  I've been battling with my weight as it has steadily gone up and up since my big weight loss in 2009.  The low point (or high point, depending on how you see things :-) was when I weighed in at 199lbs right after Christmas.  For me, that was the final straw.  I have been determined since then to turn it around and learn how to eat for health, fat loss (more than weight loss) but also to build muscle and have a strong body.  It is totally possible to lose fat and to gain and\or maintain muscle mass.  I have lost weight and not lost any of the hard earned muscle I've put on with my kick ass workouts.

I have been doing a lot of studying and trying different things and I feel like I've finally put together what works best for me.  I haven't adopted just one "diet" or one way of doing things, I've taken bits and pieces of a bunch of things and made a plan that is working for me.

Let me preface and say I have NOT gone and lost a ton of weight yet, but the progress bar has finally moved in the direction I want after having stalled for months.  I was having a real yo-yo battle with my weight, week in and week out, with one week going down a pound or 2, only to gain that back the next.  But with some studying and playing around, I have been seeing the results I want.

First, I had to think about what I want to eat and the lifestyle changes I needed and wanted to be sure that I was eating the right types of food for the best health and to build a fat burning engine inside me.  Second, I had to think about how to eat and the right approach to make sure that when, how much, and what combinations of food I'm eating are working towards the health and fat loss goals.

One of the biggest changes for me has been the "lifestyle" changes of eating, and this has been eating more vegetarian\vegan, and also eating Paleo.  To those that know theses lifestyles, you may think they are contradictory, and yes, there is much between them that is, but they also share many ideals, and combining these has been great for me.

The veggie eating lifestyle has done what it entails... I eat lots more vegetables than I ever did before.  It has also made me expand my palette and try new and different foods.  From quinoa and millet, to giant salads, to tofu, seitan, and other meat alternatives, I've learned to like a whole range of foods that I never had even thought about, much less ate before, not to mention the healthy benefits of eating more of a plant based diet (mom always said to eat my vegetables!).

However, I am not a vegetarian or a vegan.  I don't personally believe that eating only veggie\vegan is the healthiest way to eat.  Sorry to the vegans out there (my wife the most) but I believe that animal products are an essential part of life and we need what they offer us to be healthy.  However, what I can also say is that people in this day and age, especially Americans, eat way too much meat, and we eat a ton of shitty meat.  Factory farmed meat is bad for everyone... most especially the animals, that are subjected to horrendous and torturous lives... to people, who are eating sickly, unhealthy meat and slowing poisoning ourselves from within... and to the environment, which suffers under the weight of literally tons of shit, and by shit, I mean feces, poop, crap, etc.

The Paleo diet calls for eating meat, but it talks about staying away from the factory farms and eating grass fed meats.  And I do my best to stay away from factory farmed meats, though I admit, I'm not perfect at this.  I have mostly given up chicken, turkey, and pigs because these animals are literally tortured to death for their meat and the meat they are providing to us is poisoned, bloated, and unhealthy, but I do still eat some beef every now and again.  More important to me though, with the Paleo diet, is that it means to give up wheat, sugar, and processed crap.  Giving up these worthless carbs means better health and better eating.  The other big principal of Paleo is that a high protein\ fat diet, with a "low carb" diet (which isn't low carb per say, its not eating crappy carbs from sugar and wheat and getting your carbs fruits and veggies, the natural way), is far, far healthier than any other way of eating.  Less inflammation of the body, less poison, better insulin sensitivity, and a host of other benefits.

Veggie and Paleo together means to me that I am eating healthy, hearty, more environmentally friendly food and that I can feel more confident that I am only putting things that my body wants and needs inside of me.

The next part of eating is how to do it.  For that, I have recently been eating using several methods... intermittent fasting, calorie restriction, and cheat days.  This combination has made the difference for me in the past few weeks and I can see the fat burning engine has been turned on.  If you don't know about intermittent fasting and what makes it a great way to eat and live, research John Romaniello, who is an excellent trainer and nutritionist.  He's ripped, super slim, healthy, and on top it, he's a good writer.  His new diet book, Fat Loss Forever, documents how to eat and live a healthy life using IF (intermittent fasting).  IF, combined with calorie restriction (this is an easy one people, eating less!) is the bodies best way to use up the fat that is already there.  I thought fasting would be hard, but the truth is that it has been super easy, and I haven't been starving myself, just having timed, regulated periods of eating and not eating.  Done in the proper sequence, it's a powerful tool for health and fat loss.

Calorie restriction is obvious to the benefits (bring in less than you put out through exercise), but there is one big problem with JUST doing calorie restriction as a diet\fat loss method.  Your body fights against this!  After just a few days of eating less calories than your body feels that it needs, your brain tells your body to slow down your metabolism and go into starvation mode, which shuts down fat burning (basically, your body thinks its starving and it's trying to conserve what you have, which is the proper survival technique we're adapted to, but if you're trying to lose flab, this doesn't work).  Logically thinking, we should just eat less food every day and we'd lose weight, but anyone who's done this for a long time knows it doesn't work, and it's because of this starvation mode effect.

So, how do you fight this?  With my favorite day of the week... cheat day!  Yes, Saturdays are my day where I get to eat WHATEVER THE F*CK I WANT!!! And I love it.  Cereal, candy, chips, pizza, burgers, pasta, you name it, I can eat it.  Cheat days work because it balances the negative hormonal effects of calorie restriction.  One day of overeating brings your necessary hormone levels back to a point where your body never went to starvation mode and you stay in fat burning mode, pretty much all the time.  And of course, there is the added psychological benefits of a cheat day.  Sunday thru Friday, I eat a restricted diet (no sugar and crap... mostly, lol)... but no one wants to eat this way forever.  A life with no chocolate? F- that!  So the cheat day gives you that day to eat the things you like and not feel guilty about it.  It's my day of from eating veggie and Paleo.  There are only 2 rules to cheat day.  I still have to get my protein balance for the day, I have to get at least 100 grams, and never eat so much that you feel overly stuffed.  It's about eating what you want, not pigging out till you puke.

Vegetarian\vegan, Paleo, fasting, calorie restriction, and cheat days.  Combined, with the best parts of each, is working for me, mentally and physically.  I know that I'm eating healthy, tasty, and in a way that is allowing me to burn off the fat that has come back over the past couple of years.  Like I said, I haven't made super strides yet, but I feel things working and I can't wait to report back and let everyone know how successful I've been and that, hopefully, my results and methods can be yours too!


Monday, March 19, 2012

Dreaming in Deutschland

It seems to have started when I moved to Germany.  Since that time, I have had the most vivid and spectacular dreams.  I don't remember having these kind of dreams growing up or back home, it all seemed to start when I moved.

The dreams that I have... not every night mind you, but often 2 or 3 times a week... are full on, interactive, crazy and strange.  They are literally like movies in my head, or when not more story like, they are like I am there in real life... I often feel like I never actually went to sleep, that I've just continued on to somewhere and am experiencing these dreams like I'm alive and awake.  These dreams are always in vivid colors... I see the green grass, hair and eye color, blue skies, etc.  I can smell things, hear sounds and voices, and can feel touches... I have felt myself grabbed, held, pushed, prodded.  I remember being woke up once because I was jammed in the back, and when I awoke, I felt it in my back, and since I woke up lying on my back, I know that there wasn't like my dog or something that poked me.  I can still remember once being held against my will, restrained in some way, and it woke up me (violently) and I could feel the arms or whatever it was holding me and I thrashed myself up and awake.

I have often dreamed of people and it's like they are literally right there with me.  It's so random who the people are.  Sometimes I know them and they will just be someone randomly from my life that I hadn't thought of or seen in god knows when; sometimes they have been famous people, which I find to be so weird since I'm not one of these people that particularly cares for famous people; and sometimes, they are people I have never seen before ever, just completely made up, but in my dreams, they are real people with full lives and pasts and experiences.  Every now and again, these people will be speaking in other languages... German or Spanish or something I can't recognize.

There have been some dreams that were simply spectacular, where I'm doing things like an action star in a movie... swinging from lines, jumping from buildings, fighting with people using guns, knives, and my fists.  I have had some dreams that I was in war and I could see, hear, and feel explosions and screaming and yelling.  Thankfully this is rare, but I can remember a dream, more of a nightmare, that sickened me because bodies and body parts were being ripped apart, and I could see the flesh tearing and the blood and I was for whatever reason, forced to watch it.  I remember waking up feeling sick to my stomach and scared to go back to sleep.

The dreams go by so fast.  I'll often feel like I just went to sleep, only to wake up and it's almost time to get out of bed.  The whole dream will be like a long action sequence, or one big adventure, or I'm with someone and we're in a movie plot together.  These are ones that often get me the most because I'll wake up without the movie "ending" and I wake up feeling disappointed.

I don't remember having dreams like this back in America.  I don't know why a change of location would activate my brain to start inventing my own movies.  But the fact is, I know that this started for me when I came here and it's been continuing ever since.

More or less, I kind of enjoy it.  Seeing things and experiencing things in such vivid detail often leaves my mind spinning when I wake up.  I only really regret that I can't remember much of the dreams too long after I wake up.  Some of the more extreme and vivid or with just random weird people, I'll remember that I had that dream, but the details almost always 100% fade just mere moments after waking.  When I'm lucky, I will remember them all the way until my shower is done.

Maybe this isn't so strange for some people, but for me, this is just something I still can't get over.  It still feels like a new phenomenon to me and I'm always amazed when I have these dreams.  Maybe they will stop happening some day, but for now, it's an adventure going to sleep and I'll just keep living with it!

Wednesday, March 14, 2012

Head Colds... what a bummer

Head colds have got to be one of the most annoying things that can happen to you.  They aren't enough to stop you... you can still go to work, still do housework, take the dog for a walk, etc... but they suck just enough energy from you that you don't WANT to do any of those things, and definitely nothing more strenuous like working out or balancing your checkbook.  Not to mention, the nagging, mildly annoying pain in your ears, throat, and sore nose.  None of it will stop you, but all of it will certainly slow you down.

Obviously, I have a head cold right now or I probably wouldn't be writing this!

Well, I guess I just need to put up with it until it goes away, but until then, I'm going to whine and complain and, in general, be a big baby.  Oh well!

Sunday, January 15, 2012

A Game for the Ages

Yesterday's 49er game vs the New Orleans Saints was really one of the best games I've ever seen. I saw a defense play a championship caliber game; I saw an opponent offense that was unshakable despite being down all day; I saw an offense that was brilliant, then tragic, then perfect when it counted; and last but certainly not least, I saw a comeback that will go down in playoff, if not all time history.

Before the game started yesterday, the Saints were playing good enough to play in and win the Superbowl, so this says so much about the 49ers and the level they can play at. This tells everyone that the Niners are for reals and that their success this year was no fluke. All Niner fans would tell you that the Niners were for real this year; they beat 4 different teams that made it to the playoffs this year. But after going from barely mediocre last year to highly successful this year, it leaves many wondering if their success this year was as much luck and some clutch plays vs really winning because the team was superior. Yesterday's win decided that for everyone. The Niners won that game by simply playing better than the Saints... A game that most critics figured would be won by the Saints.

The Niners definitely have a team that can win it all. First and foremost, the Niners have the defense. Without looking at stats, I can guarantee that just about every Superbowl winner had at least a top-10 D. Second, the Niners have great coaching. Harbaugh has great calls and game management. Third, the offense is pretty good. Alex Smith has certainly matured as a QB; we have enough weapons to score (Gore, V. Davis), and we're not making turnovers, which has been a killer in past years. And I'd say fourth, special teams has also been very good, which is not high profile in football, but is still very important for a championship team.

We can't count our chickens yet as next week's opponent won't be easy. The Packers have been unstoppable all year and the Giants are playing the same kind of devastating defense that the Niners are. However, both of those teams are also thinking to themselves that the Niners aren't the team THEY want to see in the playoffs either.

No matter what happens, this has been a season that Niners fans will always remember. Whether we win it all or not, I think we are seeing the beginning of a wonderful era of the Harbaugh-led 49ers and seeing the Niners back in the upper echelon of NFL teams, instead of bottom of the barrel.

Let's go NINERS!!! Let's bring #6 home!!!

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Wednesday, December 7, 2011

Can the 49ers do it?


I wish that I've been able to see more 49er games this year because, obviously, they are doing HELLA good!  And from what I've seen and read this isn't just a fluke either.  The defense is for reals, and the offense has provided enough firepower to be game planned for.

Now, since I haven't seen so many games, there are lots of intangibles that I can't comment on, things you only see when you've watched the team play week in and week out.  Things like how well the offensive line is really doing (my thought, quite well, except for the Baltimore game), how well are the corners doing on defense, etc.

Again, my research and the few games I've watched says that the 49ers have it all going in the right places.  They have a team that could take it the whole way and win a Super Bowl.  But CAN they do it?


  1. A continued strong running attack will be crucial.
  2. Alex Smith and the receiving corp will need to have big games throughout the playoffs, period.  Likely the ground game can provide the meat for the offense, but in the playoffs, it's usually the big plays that win it, and big plays come from receivers.
  3. Alex Smith must continue to play error free ball.  He's shown he can, even when getting dropped all day (Baltimore game), but in the playoffs, guys are going to be coming for the kill.  He's going to have to keep a cool head and play the good ball he's done all year for the Niners to have a chance.
  4. Defense, don't let up.  Destroy runners in the playoffs.  Beat the opposing QBs to death.  Absolutely continue to be the grind em up and spit em out defense you've been all year.
  5. Coaching staff... don't get out coached!  When you face someone like Bill Belichick, you better have your gameplan... and HIS gameplan... all figured out and ready to rock.  
  6. Ted Ginn.  A big day from him could win a playoff game.  Make a play man and win yourself a ring!
The Niners are definitely contenders to take it all this year.  However, there is some serious competition that they would need to go through first.  I hope that this team can do it, it's the best shot we've had in years and I'm ready to see another Championship return to SF!!!

And, oh yes, if the Niners make it to the Superbowl, I WILL be in SF to witness this!!!  You will see the "send Mike Custer to SF" collection fund out there, and I expect contributions!!! :-)

Go Niners!!!

Tuesday, November 15, 2011

San Fran, here I come!

On Friday, I leave for a 10 day trip back to the hometown, San Francisco!  I'm beginning to get very excited!!!

I leave Friday afternoon.  Unfortunately, I have to work for half a day, but since it's only half a day, I'm basically just going to do very little then get out of here!  Good thing is that it's fairly easy to get to the airport from my job, so that won't be such a big deal.

What's cool is that even though I will be flying for 11+ hours, I will still be arriving in SF at 5:30pm.  Going west you always gain the hours back, so I will still have half a day for my vacation day (can anyone say burritos???).

The following Sunday I will be catching my second Niner's game since I left SF... the first being on the computer when Dave visited, and it happened to be the most boring victory of the year against Cincinnati.  I'm very excited about this!!!  I've invited just about everyone to come to Blackthorn tavern to watch the game, and since I'm on vacation, I can go ahead and get as trashed as I want to!  Go Niners!!!

On Monday and Tuesday evening, I booked two very cool outdoor workout sessions with Basic Training.  It seems that they have really expanded since I last took some courses with them back in 2009.  From what they have posted on their Facebook and webpages, I think these will be extremely challenging and awesome workouts.

Thursday is the main reason I'm here... Thanksgiving!  Last year, I missed both holidays (Thanksgiving I celebrated in Germany, big success, and Xmas I was stuck in London due to bad weather!).  So this will be a big deal for me and my family, our first holiday we all spend together since Xmas 2009.  My mom is going to cook all our favorites and it should be a great dinner.  I can't wait.

The rest of the trip is basically for whatever I want.  I plan to spend a lot of the free time with my family, since I didn't see them so much during my Anniversary trip earlier this year.  But since my sister works and the girls are in school, and cause mom is not the party type :) I should have plenty of free time to visit with everyone.  I should try to get a bar night going somewhere in there!

I expect to have a great trip.  I'm sorry that it's so short, but it was the best I could do, so I'll take it!

Can't wait to see my SF folks!

Peace
Mike

Monday, August 1, 2011

The Birthday Week is at an End

My birthday week is definitely over.  A shame really, because I was really enjoying it!

I have to admit that I wasn't looking forward to my 35th birthday.  This one really just made me feel old! But, thanks to my lovely wife, my family and friends, everything turned out pretty good!

Kathi and I started my birthday by taking a 3 day trip to Prague, Czech Republic.  I had recently gone to Prague for a bachelor party for my friend.  We were there for one day and didn't really see much of the city.  But going for the 3 days with Kathi really opened my eyes to how beautiful Prague really was.  To me, this city was the stereotype of what I thought a European city would look like (everything is old and classic, with lots of churches and bells, ect ect!).  Kathi said it right when she said that Prague was old building overload!  But, a great town, for sure.  The castle was amazing and extremely huge, the food and drinks were all very good and cheap, the people were pretty nice, and all in all, everything about it was a good time!

This last Saturday I had a nice birthday party at the Höfbräukeller biergarten.  That was a really great time for me! Lots of people came, we stayed out late and got nice and drunk, and I finally got the Kindle, which I have wanted for SOOOO long now!  It's awesome and reading on it is just so easy!

Basically, this was a great birthday and I feel very grateful for the life that I live and the people that are in it.  Thanks everyone!

Friday, July 22, 2011

Wish Me Luck!!!

I need everyone to wish me luck for Saturday because tomorrow I go to take my German Language B1 exam!  Normally I'm very good with tests and very rarely experience anxiety, but for this particular test, I'm extremely nervous.

The B1 exam will test me for reading, hearing, writing, and speaking.  Should I pass this test, I will officially be at the "conversational" level of the German language.  This is far from fluent, but it does mean that I am able to have basic conversations with people and am supposed to be able to understand people.  I have to admit that I can still barely follow native speakers in conversation, or TV or movies, so I know I have a long ways to go before I can call myself fluent in German!

Learning a language is difficult, I don't care what any of the experts say, or what system you use to learn it, especially for someone like myself, who has never learned another language and I seem to have no special affinity for learning one.  With language, it's difficult because it's not a linear process, like say math or science.  With those two, for example, your progress is directly determined by what you learned the day before; its like your learning process is building blocks and you simply get higher by stacking the boxes together.  With language, this process is not fluid and linear.  I've noticed that each person learns it in their own way, in their own speed and with different specialties.  Some are great with the vocabulary, others with the grammer, and some have perfect accents.  Me... I am only average at best in any of those three areas.  And another thing about learning the language is that what you build on seems so random.  You hear something here, read something there, and then there is comprehension, but there never seemed to be a 1-2-3 approach (learn 1, then you can learn 2, then 3... instead its like learn 1, then 5, then it's back to 2, 3, and then 10!!!).

I have no confidence in my skills in German so I'm just completely nervous about tomorrow.  Normally, I'm an excellent test taker.  I mean, I passed High School by doing almost no homework but acing all my tests!  But I have to admit that I don't know if I'm really ready for tomorrow.  I'm worried that I will not be able to understand the hearing portion, I will sound like a retard for the speaking portion, I will not be able to read a thing, and I will write like a small child (and again like a retard!).  I know that I'm probababy exagerrating, but I have to admit that this is how I feel.  The teacher tells us that making mistakes is not the issue, but testing our general understand and usage is what they really want to see... but I still can't help feeling like I don't understand shit and I'm going to blow it... 6 months of night classes down the drain and wasted!

So, I'm hoping for everyone's best wishes and prayers so that I can pass this test and finally be done with school, can tell the Government "here is your stupid test, give me my permanent Visa and leave me alone!", and can finally feel confident that I know German way better than I gave myself credit for!

Wednesday, July 13, 2011

Meetings... No thank you!

I have been in the corporate world for some time now and one thing that has never seemed to get better, or more relevant with time, are meetings. Without question, meetings bore me more than just about anything in the world. Bland, worthless information, bad speakers, corporate speak and buzzwords, and lately, in a language I can't understand, meetings consistently put me to sleep almost right away!

Meetings feel to me like people just trying to be more important than they are. "You need to meet and gather around me and listen to what I say, cause I know it all... Or at least I need to pretend I do."

Reading the bullet points verbatim from your crappy PowerPoint presentation also sucks super hard.

Basically, unless there will be food and beers served before, during, or after the meeting, you're wasting my time and I'll be asleep soon!!!


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Tuesday, July 12, 2011

How do you deal with Setbacks?

I know that when a setback hits me, I go through two phases.  The first phase, which is the immediate aftermath, I am angry, upset, sad, and totally inconsolable.  However the second phase I am upbeat, positive, and ready to beat the damn setback to death!

How many of you are the same way?  Do you have bad or good reactions to your setbacks?  Are you the get mad and scream kinda of person, the "ehhhhh it happens" kind of person, or the super positive, super happy, I'll win no matter what type of person (you types kind of annoy me... at least in phase one, haha!)

Most of my setbacks come from either money or personal fitness.  Either I spend too much and am broke (and it's 99.9% always my own fault!) or I don't meet my fitness goals (I can't believe that on my current diet I gained a pound, totally ruined my morning!).  I'm always so angry about it because I know, in hindsight (which we know is 20/20), I can always see what I did wrong.  So I guess that's why, once I start to think about what I did wrong, I'm able to turn my mood around and be ready to deal with it and get over the hump.

What's been your latest setback?  Does it still have you down or have you risen up and beat it?  Love you hear how you deal with it! 

Tuesday, July 5, 2011

Can I do it?

I've started a new plan of attack for the next several months, up to the end of the year, as to how I'm going to change my health and fitness and finally get the body I've always wanted.

I've always wanted to have a body where I wouldn't be ashamed to take off my shirt.  Yet, the desire for it was not always equal to the discipline it takes to do something about it.  Sure, a little diet here and there, a couple of trips the gym now and again, these happened... but never to any satisfactory conclusions.

Health and fitness have become an important part of my life now, but even with these being more of a priority, I still haven't made many strides in the right direction.  I definitely eat better, I work out way more than I ever did, but the results haven't been much different than in the past.

I have been doing more research and investigating and I think I've come together with a solid strategy of diet and exercise that is finally going to make the changes I need.  I hope to have finally answered the question of what AND how to eat, and with the right kind of exercises to go along with it.

I can't say that it's going to be successful right now because I just started.  But inside my head, it's already happened.  I see it and visualize it everyday.  This is a huge battle won in itself.  But I'll only know if things are changing for me in a few months time.  Then I guess it'll be time for another blog to let people know if I was truly successful or not!

Thursday, March 10, 2011

How to clean up my mess

When you make a mess you need to clean it up, but sometimes it's not that easy.

I've got a couple of things to clean up and neither of them am I happy about. I want to yell and scream about how dumb I am, but that doesn't help. It's happened and it's time to clean up.

When I think about what to do, really the best cleanup is prevention; be proactive with my planning and communication. A personal problem I have always had is that I very often don't see past my own life and issues. I can easily forget about the other people out there, and quite frankly, this can piss people off. Sometimes I think it's their OWN selfishness that makes them angry, but it's a cycle that could be broken if I would think of others more than only myself.

The ongoing cleanup that will never really be finished is my own life. We all make new and interesting mistakes as we go along, so really, just making sure to not repeat the same old mistakes is the best cleanup we can hope for.

I've got a bit of work ahead of me in the next couple of days, but I think that I can clean up well and make everything the way it was before. Hopefully.

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Friday, February 11, 2011

Anger


Why do we get angry? Why is it that we can be angry sometimes without any obvious reason?

In my experience, anger has always been very devastating to my life and my well being. I tell myself, using positive self talk, that I am not angry, I don't get angry, that anger has no power over me... and yet, time and again, I find myself succumbing to it. It's like a beast that lives inside me, looking for the smallest of openings so that it can come roaring out of me.

I thank god that I have good things in my life that help me to push back these angry moments. Things like my wife and my family and friends. Yet, I know that it is still only me that can truly control my emotions.

I think that's really the answer. I'm in control and only I can make the changes necessary to keep negative emotion, like anger, at bay. Recognizing my internal strength is the key to being able to beat back the anger.

It's a tiring task, and each time I feel I've got the battle won, I'm forced to fight it again. But I'm resolved to win the war and not just the battle. My loved ones deserve a happy, healthy me and should not have to deal with a moody, angry person. And neither should I.

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Thursday, February 10, 2011

Test 2 with a picture


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This is a test of my blog program on my iPhone. If it shows up no different than when I writ online, I'll start using it more often.


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Location:Stuntzstraße,Munich,Germany

Tuesday, December 7, 2010

Germany December 7th 2010

The last month and a half have been some of the most fun, and the most busy\stressful (!!!), since I came to Germany!  Kathi and I have been busy, busy, busy, but I have to say it's been all worth it.

First of all, throughout all these good times, Kathi and I have been working full time and going to classes in the evening and weekends (me, my German Integration courses three nights a week for 3 hours a night, for Kathi her Social Media Manager courses, all day Saturdays, where she is also the TA).  So, each of us is pulling 50hr weeks, which isn't really too much, but throw in super busy at work (mostly Kathi), the dog, exercise, chores, friends, party planning, drinking, and some time to just veg out... and our days have been FULL. 

It started with our Halloween party.  We weren't sure we wanted to have one or not, but I'm sure glad that we did!  It was a total success!  For alot of our friends here in Germany, it was their first ever Halloween party... for me, that kicks ass!  Halloween isn't a new holiday here, but it's not celebrated much.  More and more, little kids will trick or treat, but not much and without the enthusiasm of the US and UK.  So, I had the impression that our Halloween party was not going to be very successful, that nobody was going to either show up or, if they did, they weren't going to wear costumes!  But to my surprise, most people did!!!  And they rocked!!!  Here are some pictures...








It was a great time, I got super wasted, and I want to do it even bigger and badder next year!


November was fairly quiet until the end, and then it was way too much fun!  I had two people visit me from the States... first my friend\old roommate Jessica, though she was only passing through Munich for half a day on her way to Italy.  But then came trouble... Big Sammy came to visit for an entire week!  And during that week, we threw our Thanksgiving dinner... another first for our friends here in Germany! 

Let me tell you, me and Sammy, we did it big while he was out here.  We got wasted pretty much every night, we went all over the city, we partied with a bunch of our friends out here, and we cooked a big fat Thanksgiving dinner... which was also a huge success!  Höfbräuhaus, Tollwood, Killians Irish bar, and partying like a bunch of college kids in our basement... we pretty much did everything we could to have as much fun as possible.  For Sam and me, the first day of winter started while he was here, and all the Christmas markets and decorations as well, so it was pretty much a winter wonderland for both of us!  BTW, Glühwein fuckin rocks!  ;-)  More pics...




So, now what's on tap for December???  Well!!!  I had my German "Stammtisch" last weekend (and another big weekend with the Glühwein... man, that shit is addictive!!!)... Ice skating on Friday, heading to Nüremburg on Saturday, a Yankee Swap party on Sunday, and then, next Friday the 17th, I fly back to America for a little over a week to see my family and friends... and do it big once again!  And of course, we can't forget that New Years will be right after that!

So yes, life is quite, quite, quite busy right now, but quite, quite, quite FUN as well!  Loving all of it, loving my wife and my friends, and just loving being where and who I am!!!

Much love people... much love... and Happy Holidays!!!

Tuesday, October 26, 2010

As Readers of my Blog...

Some time back, I changed the way that this Google Blogger was imported onto my Facebook fan page. I'm now debating which way I like it best. I'll do my best to explain and hope to hear comments back from all of you.

When I first setup my fan page, the way that I got this blog to be imported onto the fan page was by configuring Facebook Notes to import an RSS feed that is created by each new blog
  • an RSS feed is a news feed, usually of a new story or post, offered by most news and informational type websites, and can be read with an RSS reader, of which there are many including most Browsers, most mail clients such as Outlook, and specific programs. These are offered as quick ways to get news and stories without having to always go directly to the website when the new articles arrive.
So, each new RSS feed became a new Note on my Facebook page. From there, you would read the note, and make comments or Like it, or whatever. The problem with this method was how long it took for Facebook to finally retrieve the RSS feed. It took anywhere from a few hours to sometimes as much as several days for a new blog post to show up on Facebook. While this is not necessarily terrible, since I don't use my blog for business or money making, it sure made it annoying. But what I liked about this method was that the blog was now a Note on Facebook, and everyone could make their comments on it, and they weren't redirected back to the Google Blogger website to read the blog.

To fix the problem of the slow feed from Facebook, I started using a Facebook app called RSS Grafitti, which did the import of my blog in a very fast timeframe (I believe it checks the Blogger site every five minutes or something, so 5 minutes after a blog is posted, it will be on Facebook). This is great and I like that alot, however, now when you click on the blog to read it, you are redirected to the Blogger website. This means that you have to go BACK to Facebook if you want to comment on the blog (though you can comment here on Blogger as well). I feel like this will take away from people providing their feedback because I don't actually maintain my Blogger site at all other than to actually write my blogs so if people are commenting on the blogs here then I mostly won't notice and neither will most other people.

So, to the heart of the matter, the question I wanted to ask from the start... which way is better??? Is it better to have the blogs show up as Notes in Facebook, but take a really long time to get there, or is it better that the blog arrive right away and to just let people get redirected to this site and read the blog on Blogger, and then go back to Facebook to comment? I'm torn, I really don't know which is the better way.

I like the Notes/RSS feed method better, but I hate how long it takes. I love how fast the program RSS Graffiti is but I don't want people redirected to another website to read my blogs.

What would you do?

Thanks for the help!!!

FC Bayern!

So, tonight I'm off to my first Fußball game, FC Bayern München VS Werder Bremen! BTW, Fußball is German for Football aka Soccer!

I'm pretty excited! First, never been to a
Fußball game... does this make me a soccer hooligan?!? :-) Second, the Allianz Arena here in Munich is supposed to be a very cool and modern stadium... I'm looking forward to see what Fußball fans eat and drink at the stadium!!! Third, since I'm missing out on all the Giants and Niner games (hmmm, not sure I'm actually missing out on the Nienr games! But that's a whole Blog to itself!!!) this is my first opportunity to be a sports nut here in Germany!

Big thanks to Sid for coming thru with the extra ticket!

Check the link for the preview!
http://www.fcbayern.t-home.de/en/news/news/2010/26214.php